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In midst of plethora of blogs and bloggers in this web world, why another blog? I also asked the same question to myself; the answer lies in a question which has both allured and captivated me (and i think most of us) a long.

The quest started right from my college days and kept on snarling me till it unwound . What’s my Goal? Where am I heading in life? and related blah. This is the most discussed and heard off question in my life. I also have had many ‘so called goals’ from those days but I regard none of them as a persistence one. Why? Because they were not well thought off or more aptly driven or influenced by parents and people around me.

Moreover, even after realizing that fact I didn’t knew how to figure out what my goal is. I investigated many mind tools and read goal analyzing/setting literature nothing worked much but did gave me something to ponder on. I changed my outlook. So, first I decided what should be the attribute of that goal; which will essentially depend on my nature and priorities in life. I want it to be very broad level focusing on my strength, interest and principles in life. I got down to these three:

1-Freedom: I want independence. Contrary to it a goal (materialistic) will actually make me more captivated. So its better to say the goal should make me relatively free(a persistence goal).

2- Expertise: The goal should eventually make me an expert on a particular field. This will give me more confidence and freedom.

3-Contribute: I want to contribute to the society in what so manner it is. It could be financial,  knowledge sharing etc.

So thats it. I think even if I don’t have a single word or phrase to objectively define my goal I know working on above three will make me happy and thats what a goal should do. Make me happy. In back of my mind i know where I am heading to but I dont want to pen it down right now; let it evolve.

Having said that its dangerous not defining the goal objectively. I will end up reaching either no where or out of the way. What’s the solution? The solution lies in answering how to the above three:

How can i contribute? E.g. Association with NGO’s , sharing knowledge through blogs (and that’s how Brupp came into picture) etc.

How can i be expert? E.g. Learn technology, work hard etc

How can i be more freer? E.g. Find ways for efficient working, plan my hour etc

Having said that still there are pit falls. Unless I modularize these to a month, week and day it will just remain as a burden in my head and nothing more than that; And therefore “schedule and measure the goal” . That’s  THE most important part of goal setting. Break-up your tasks to smallest measurable unit. For example, the break-up can be as small as reading blogs, articles of so and so people/sites, daily. Follow it religiously.

The above way is not a one fit all types way to see your goal however I think its a practical one: Look for the path you want to follow, set milestones and achieve them. A relevant quote by Eddie Cantor: Slow down and enjoy life. It’s not only the scenery you miss by going too fast – you also miss the sense of where you are going and why.

Choose a goal which motivates you and is attainable.

Hey! Reader, its your turn now. Please comment and share in your experience with goal setting, how you figured it out?

An yes if you liked the blog please share and cheer. By the way that’s what Brupp!!! stands for: “Share and Cheer”.